LOVE TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP

The three most important ingredients to successful marriage have been terribly abused. Some fall in love and never married, others marry but are not in love. Millions of people experiment with sex without even being in love. Still others are in love and are married but fail to understand the importance of a wholesome and proper sexual relationship. Not many seem to be putting all three - love, marriage and sex- together in the right order. Almost everyone has experienced what he or she thought was love, only to find out it really wasn't. Perhaps your case was typical. It first happened in the teen years when you were first attracted to a member of the opposite sex. There was a strange, tingling, excited feeling that would not just in away. You thought you say shooting stars. Felt like you were walking on air, you could have danced all the night. Later, you came to realize that was not love at all. Your parents tried to tell you it was puppy love. It was just infatuation. Maybe you even experienced these feelings of love three or four times each time thinking this new feeling was the really one true forever love. Unfortunately thousands of people make terrible mistakes because of not knowing how to handle adolescent emotions. It often leads to premarital sexual experience, which in turn often leads to premarital pregnancy and millions of babies born out of wedlock every year. Others misinterpreting their feelings of love leap into premature marriages. A large percentage of those who married for the sale of the children or for religious or financial reasons.they find they are not really in love at all. Where and when to fit the sexual relationship into this picture is often confusing. The signals of our liberated society tell up to practice sex whenever, however and in whatever manner we want to. "Consenting adults" is the catch phrase. The God given formula for happiness and success in marriage is usually totally ignored. Be in love, marry and have a healthy sexual relationship. You cant build a marriage without love. Sex should NEVER be practiced outside the confines of marriage.